Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop
October 22nd, 2009Three be the things I shall have until I die:
Laughter and hope and a sock in the eye.
- Dorothy Parker
Shaky financial markets, political mistrust, and unpredictable encounters with an international source. Haven’t we seen this before? Plummeting stocks and rising unemployment are nothing to make light of, of course, but as a Baby Boomer it’s easy to spot the similarities between our country’s current predicament and the ones we have already lived to tell about.
Truth be told, I think we Boomers deserve smooth sailing from here on out. Didn’t we follow President Kennedy’s lead when he told us, his fellow Americans, to ask what we could do for our country, rather than what our country could do for us? As a generation, I know we did. We’ve handled some hairy situations before, and quite well, I might add. We made it through Communism, the Vietnam War, and Watergate, only to arrive at….well, the Starr Report, two Iraq wars, and the financial market meltdown. Are these the circu
mstances under which we Boomers are supposed to enter into our Golden Years? If so, no thanks – I think I’d rather go through McCarthyism again.
Then again, our generation – or at least some of its members – played at least a partial role in the recent economic debacle. In fact, some of its most notorious players are card-carrying members of the Boomer generation, including many of the Congressional Democrats and Republicans who acted like unruly siblings instead of getting down to the business of drafting a bailout plan. Despite this, however, I believe we can still hold our heads high. (Thinking back to grade school, there was always a cheater or a bully in every class, but most of us did our own work and played well with others).
Although some of you pessimistic Boomers might resist, try to look on the bright side. As Boomers, we are 78 million members strong. Our generation is a living example of hope and embodies a spirit of renewal, rising out of the ashes of the two World Wars. Due to a rapid series of medical advances over the last several decades, our average lifespan is now 85 years old. We are the first generation to experience this significantly increased lifespan, not to mention a better quality of life as we age.
Still waiting for the other shoe to drop? Don’t bother. Go ahead and deal proactively with the things you can control, but don’t waste time worrying about the things you can’t. Want a second opinion? According to noted psychologist Arnold H. Glasgow, “the future is the past returning through another gate.” In an ironic twist that backs up Dr. Glasgow’s statement, the Associated Press reported on its website yesterday that the financial fallout in this country has a surprising upside. Gas prices have dropped to just under $88 per barrel; the last time they were this low was exactly a year ago, in October 2007.
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Dr Karen
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October 22nd, 2009 at 8:22 pm
Where does phrase “Waiting for the other shoe to drop” come from?
I don’t understand the whole shoe reference?
October 23rd, 2009 at 1:24 am
Well sort of like you were swept off by a wild wind and one shoe flew of and you know the other one is going to fall and you will be left with the out come of having to deal with that.
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October 23rd, 2009 at 1:26 am
[Q] From Linda Rodina: “I am interested in the origin of the phrase, waiting for the other shoe to drop. Would you know about this phrase?”
[A] Curiously, few of my reference works even mention this phrase. When they do, it’s usually in the form drop the other shoe!, meaning “go on, say the next obvious thing!”, which seems to have been known for most of the twentieth century.
There was a discussion about your form of the phrase among members of the American Dialect Society some time ago, to no very positive effect, though it was established that it has been around for a long time. Barry Popik found a cartoon about Hitler in the New York World-Telegram for 15 February 1943 entitled “Waiting for That Other Shoe to Drop!”, indicating that the phrase was by then well enough known to be something of a catchphrase. More recently, he found an even older example in the New York Times of March 1921: “If nine out of ten of us hadn’t heard that ‘drop that other shoe’ chestnut and molded our lives accordingly for the sake of the neighbor below us, what would be the end of us?” So it was old even then.
Its source would seem to be the following story. A man comes in late at night to a lodging house, rather the worse for wear. He sits on his bed, drags one shoe off and drops it on the floor. Guiltily remembering everyone around him trying to sleep, he takes the other one off much more carefully and quietly puts in on the floor. He then finishes undressing and gets into bed. Just as he is drifting off to sleep, a shout comes from the man in the room below: “Well, drop the other one then! I can’t sleep, waiting for you to drop the other shoe!”. This may come from music hall or vaudeville, though it would seem that nobody has been able to tie it down more precisely.
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